So...this is complicated but i have a little thing for my boss. shes pretty legit the issue is shes 5 years older than me has 2 kids and idk if its right. The good news is ive admitted to it and i didnt really like the response i got. I feel like shes throwing signs at me sometimes like one time she made me go with her to pick her kids up and she didnt say her kids she said our kids idk what to do. i really could use some help

Just to give you an idea ive liked her for over a year now and ive worked with her for like a year and a half and ive been around when she had 1 kid and tbh im really trying to focus on getting her kids to like me.

This post was edited by cbghas on Jun 21 2017 12:39am

Never dip your pen in the company ink. Unless you work at KFC.

I can elaborate, but this is an almost cardinal rule to not fuck your career up.

Favoritism, bias, entitlement, there's many reasons why, and just a few why not.

If you truly want it, go for it, but I think it's a recipe for disaster.

The only reason I work there is to help her I planned on quit ting a long time ago but when I heard she was gonna be the boss I sucked it up n went right on thru she just recently became my boss but b4 she was just at my level

It's a bad idea while you're working together

if you feel strongly enough about it quit for it

So you already expressed yourself to her ("The good news is ive admitted to it and i didnt really like the response i got.")
So move on man. If you expressed interest (by being direct, example: hey we should meet up for drinks) and she didn't return it. Move on.

Secondly. You should have quit your job. Not because you like her. But staying there only because you like her when you were planning on quitting is weak.
Men need to go for what they want in all aspects of their lives, and that includes career.

This post was edited by GLYC123 on Jun 21 2017 12:07pm

I was OK with the response I got but I don't think it's something she wanted to say I felt as if she feels I can't handle the responsibility. Does that make sense?


Other mention idc who I am with whenever I move out I'm buying a husky pupper

This post was edited by cbghas on Jun 21 2017 12:48pm

5 years older doesnt matter unless youre like 15

Age is irrelevant. What it sounds like to me is she likes you as her work-husband.

Doesn't make sense to me. It sounds like you're irrationally trying to rationalize a shitty situation. As if you're lying to yourself to avoid pain. Been there before, got the t-shirt, said " fuck this. What am I doing."

If she wanted you, in that moment, she wouldnt have said otherwise.
However, if you confessed your feelings to her, that was a bad move, should have just gotten her number and went for a date. Women know what that means sbout your intentions.
It's much more masculine and attractive to go about it that way.

This post was edited by GLYC123 on Jun 24 2017 02:47pm

Why waste your resources raising someone elses kids