Quote (turtol @ May 22 2017 04:37pm)
You have a child. Your life is already over, why are you worried about ever being happy again? I'm not worried about the sun rising and setting everyday because I know it's going to happen.
Having a child literally does not end your life and definitely doesn't make your happiness cease to exist... Lmao that's the most absurd thing I've ever heard. Don't you have some underwear to worry about? Lmao! I wish I had problems like that, but I'm a fucking grown up.
Quote (Anton24 @ May 22 2017 07:25pm)
Sounds like you aren't over her because you are dealing with the mother of your child. You literally said it in your last sentence. Removing that from the equation will allow you to focus on yourself and moving on.
Have you thought about sole custody? I mean, why not just talk to her parents about the issue? If they don't like her and wanna beat her, surely they don't think her fit to raise a kid, and wouldn't mind her detaching entirely from her mistakes? Or am I reaching?
Regardless, you have an obligation. To yourself. If you need pussy, bring it on over. Just don't ruin your child's life or you may look in the mirror years down the road and be filled with shame.
There are halfway houses, women's shelters, and all sorts of support systems in place for women in this country. She doesn't have to sleep on friend's couches or in your spare room, she just needs to stop being fucking lazy. All you are doing is enabling her.
I'm being pretty harsh, but it's real talk. Take control of that situation and your kid. Get the kid under your roof, get rid of her ass, find new ass, problem solved. You'll be so busy fucking other single parents and taking care of your kid, you'll forget about the other bitch in a small amount of time.
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There has to be some reason she has nowhere to go and was being beaten by mom and dad, and not with you despite having a child with you. My radar is saying that bitch be cray, and you need to detach with force.
I let her have it last night (verbally, not sexually lol). We got into it about her doing whatever the fuck she wants and not letting me have any time to myself. Literally all I want to do is work on my house sometimes without having my daughter in the way or distracting me. Last night I was trying to grout the new tile I installed and my daughter spilled a bunch of water. All while she was laying on my couch bullshitting on her phone (what she does every day). So that upset her, that I wanted her to take care of our daughter for a few minutes. So I told her, "maybe it's not me. Maybe it's not your parents. Did you ever think that it's YOU? Your ex beat the shit out of you, your parents beat the shit out of you! You're lucky that I have enough discipline and patience because I want to beat the shit out of you!" (I never would though, I don't play that abuse shit. Was physically abused growing up.) She honestly doesn't have shit going for her. Can't afford to live, let alone pay off her 18k in student loans. And that's just racking up because she doesn't pay on it at all. So I'm just trying to be a decent human being, put my life on hold and help someone in need. I always stress myself the fuck out because I'm too selfless of a person.
Quote (Tear @ May 23 2017 02:19pm)
yeah, slaying another girl definitely helps you get over your ex's. its
the intimacy from another female restores confidence and helps you forget about the intimacy you had with your previous.
that being said, bro, just got to their house lol.
problem solved my guy
It's so difficult to even talk to a girl now. What am I supposed to say if they want to come over? "Sorry, you can't come over because my daughters mother lives in my spare room". I'm really hoping this bitch gets her shit together somewhat. She's a fucking parasite and will latch onto anyone that she can.