turn gay like me ~

Not that easy. Roommate has record and will be in warm water for police contact



Very true. The past, the comforts, all gone and into the unknown. Hard stuff. Thank you for the great and relevant response

I was in the exact same situation as you little more than a month ago, just minus the slapping.

Insecure af girl friend that used to think I was chatting up other girls at my muay thai gym. Told her 1000 times wasn't speaking to other girls, but that didn't stop her from being paranoid as fuck..
She'd throw moods swings like crazy and start screaming at me when I tried to explain situations to her. My cool level minded demeanor didn't seem to help the situation, she'd just get more mad.
Then the next day I'd get a wall of text messages saying that shes sorry, and I'd forgive her. Just for her to repeat it again a week later. It's fucking crazy lol.

Fuck that shit man. It's mentally draining. I know you're probably making rationalizations to yourself like, " everyone isn't perfect," or " atleast she's acknowledged that she's wrong and said sorry."

Don't fall in that trap. Just get the fuck out of the relationship and stay out. Stay out. Do not try to comfort her.

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Thats so true. She can be so sweet, not to sound corny, and shes a 9.5/10. So many complicating factors. How did you do it?

I forced myself to acknowledge that even though she had amazing redeeming qualities, she just isn't for me. She's a great person, and I'm a great person. But we weren't meant to be with each other.

Everytime she would do something sweet which usually trigger feelings of regret for cutting things off ( normal ) , I'd keep in mind that I 100% made the right decision, and to not look back.

Biggest trap though, is trying to comfort her. Don't do it, you'll just be stuck back at square one.

I'm going to ask you very simply, what do you seriously value in a woman?

I hear this works well actually.. tell them you are gay and you have been

May i ask what zodiac sign that female was?

Pisces.

Horoscopes are ridiculous. I hope you truly don't believe in the mass cultural delusion that the sun's apparent position relative to arbitrarily defined constellations at the time of our birth, somehow affects our personalities.

You've already made up your mind that you don't want her anymore. That's good.

It's understandable that it's difficult to approach her about this, but you'll just have to best that storm. She's going to lose her shit, she's probably going to give you your worst time ever, but once the storm is over, you're done with it. You'll feel tremendously relieved once you're single and you realize you don't have to think about her with every decision you make.

Good luck.