1) It's obvious she wants you to kiss her or she wouldn't be spending so much time with you and acting as you described. If you're unsure of this, then for the good of things just believe me and quit putting any thought into worrying about that. It doesnt help anything except to create anxiety. If you didn't think so too, you wouldn't still be thinking of her this way.
2) How does it seem weird to you? Well, as you said, you don't know when the time is right. Fact is, there is no objective or definite "right time". It is not at the "end of the night" i.e. at her door or before she leaves after you're already regressing from the peak euphoria/extasy/happiness of the night, it's when you feel it instinctually. I know that YOU know you've felt it probably the last time you spent real time with her, and here's another fact: feelings are almost always reciprocated. How do you feel if she smiles at you for real? You feel happy and smile, too. If she shares a sad story, you feel sad, too. You empathize, because you're not a fucking psychopath. You feel more deeply connected because you've shared with each other information that not many people know. Just as sharing vulnerabilities and good experiences creates a link of positive or negative empathatic emotion, the sexual desires are shared, too. I know it's easy to convince yourself this isn't true, but we just walked through it... if her smiling at you makes you happy, then arguing to yourself against it is just illogical.
3) So how do I exchange potential awkwardness for more physical desire and create this perfect time? Escalating physical contact. You can start super innoculously by just touching her arms or back or whatever when you stand next to her or pass by her or share information with each other. If you're cooking dinner together, even poking her with your elbow and her poking you back is an escalation. The only reason she'd be upset but these things is if she thought you were immediately physically dangerous, which arent (hopefully?). She is very aware of your physical contact and her reciprocation is positive feedback for that, do not doubt. How do YOU feel when she links arms with YOU? Same shit, man, you aren't special. Then sometime later you'll find yourself holding both her hands in yours, or elbows or any front-to-front prolonged contact, and she's looking straight at you, and you'll not be a moron and do what you want to do.
This post was edited by JadeBlade23 on Mar 24 2017 05:43pm