Quote (karastrinket @ Mar 24 2017 07:20am)
Hi, I'm just a bit lost on what I should do. I've had one relationship that lasted 3 years but we broke up about couple months ago. I feel no emotional feeling towards her and I think the fact that I had to move helped with that.
Anyways, I found a new job and this girl and I started talking. I got her number, took her out a few times 1 on 1 and it seems like she really enjoyed her time with me. She would get super close to me, try to link arms, smile/laugh a lot, nonstop talking and asking questions, etc... we also seem to share some common hobbies.. I'm pretty sure she likes me but I only have one previous relationship to go off of. I can't tell if I'm moving too slow because she's initiating physical contact and stays really close to me as if she wants me to do more. We haven't kissed yet but I think this could occur next time we are alone. My question is, the next time I am alone with her, should I just tell her that I like her and see what she says? Or should I wait a bit? My gut feeling says ask her but I don't want to come off as a desperate guy or a guy trying to rush things too fast.
Btw, the job is just temporary, I just need to work a bit so that I can afford classes. Thanks all
Go for it bro. The signs are there. Girls usually go with a pretty good rule that if they didn't enjoy themselves they aren't going to come back for more.