Quote (leemyungbak @ Mar 8 2017 06:52pm)
good move but if you ever want to consider forgiveness that is always an option but it is extremely hard work for both parties. A gf cheated on me once and we were able to move passed and our relationship was fully restored -- and i have a free pass card but let's not talk about that.
I don't think I could ever do this.
But of course it's your life, so you do what you choose.
I place the upmost trust in people and once they violate that, it's over. I could never have a serious amount of trust in them again, and that is a deal breaker to me because I feel like thats essential.
If she cheated once, i truly believe that she will cheat again.
The best she can be after that is a fwb, but nothing more.
To the OP, you dodged a bullet. At least you found out now versus who knows how far down the road (imagine if this happened after you were married/had kids).
This post was edited by GLYC123 on Mar 9 2017 10:36am