Quote (The_Chosen @ Mar 5 2017 02:14am)
So I moved in with my girlfriend with the idea that even if we did end up breaking up, I can support myself enough until I could get a buddy to room with me.
We moved in together and she's unable to find a job.
I've been stressing her to find one, and I believe she is trying, but I also feel like it's putting a large burden on me to support both of us. ( ex. I can't call out of work if I'm sick because of how tight bills are) normally this would be fine, but I've been doing it for 7 months and it's getting overwhelming.
She's had one interview with no recall, and I'm starting to feel trapped.
I don't want to nag her, but it's becoming a point where I get angry at the fact that she can not get a job, maybe more that I have been breaking my ass and I feel she's not putting in the effort I am.
Advice please. I do care for her lots, but physically and mentally I feel like I am being drained.
First thing is, have you sat down and let her know how you feel, and pretty much just explain it to her exactly as you have here, and go from there.
Being honest, most women aren't very good moochers anyways they like to have financial freedom and to contribute( my experiences anyways)
My suggestion would be setting a realistic time for her to find and get settled into this new job, and then go from there.
Now I don't know where you live at specifically, but I know her around me every gas station snd restaurant around is hiring, and usually you don't need very much experience to ge hired.
There are plenty of jobs out there unfortunately most are every level and pay minimum wage, but something's better then nothing.