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Mar 7 2017 12:33am
Quote (James84 @ Mar 6 2017 02:17pm)
Any interaction, physical or psychological between 2 or more people, that reaches to a point where the partner (bf or gf) wouldn't be comfortable with.
But, knowing what your partner would or wouldn't be ok with, well... that needs to be talked over before hand, or you need to know the person a long time to know such things and act accordingly.

I always say communication is the key.
At some point in your life/age, if you want things to go smooth, you'll have to muster up the courage to talk about this subject with your partner. Explain' both your understandings, acceptances, dislikes, etc.
Kind of like bringing up the talk about a prenup, not quite easy for some.

Also, you need to consider, people change. Therefore having that same talk down the road into a relationship would be wise.
The things that bothered me about my girlfriends actions in the past, today, would just fly over my shoulders.


This.
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Mar 7 2017 12:30pm
Quote (Nickels @ Mar 6 2017 11:33pm)
This.


My partner hated it when I used to go hiking and take time to sit on the edge of a plateau to take pictures. With about 600-700 foot drops (Columbia River Gorge here in Washington).

She was highly uncomfortable with it, and mentioned it could be a deal breaker.

It wasn't cheating, but it was indeed a deal breaker.

Not trying to take away from his point; which is discomfort typically stemming from interaction with another human.

Just felt like sharing that some discomforts separate from human interaction can also be deal breakers.
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Mar 8 2017 07:02pm
men cheat physically
women can cheat emotionally and physically

come on. guys have emotions?

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Mar 9 2017 07:01am
Quote (leemyungbak @ Mar 8 2017 06:02pm)
men cheat physically
women can cheat emotionally and physically

come on. guys have emotions?


Haha my man.
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Mar 11 2017 02:50pm
Cheating is crossing whatever your boundaries you have agreed on with your partner. That's all.
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Mar 11 2017 10:30pm
Quote (Leevee @ Mar 11 2017 04:50pm)
Cheating is crossing whatever your boundaries you have agreed on with your partner. That's all.


This. There is no real definition.
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Mar 16 2017 08:10am
if you or your significant other are looking for other people, cheating will happen.

cheating can be anything from a phone call that went to far, to sending a picture, to anything physical etc... cheating is cheating, if you or your significant other is so much as flirting with someone else that they are interested in taking it farther than that with its cheating.
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