Quote (Captain87 @ Mar 2 2017 04:16pm)
This is pretty true, I've experienced this myself but not in s 5 year scale.
Been away for about 4-5 months bro and I went wild and crazy. Then thought there was something special about this chick. But in every facet imaginable she was less than or didn't add up to my ex.
Now the ex and I have been talking sharing it takes of despair. She feels the same way. I dig antons analogy in the first post.but I'm a pretty big believer that we all have 1 person we can connect with at a higher level. Just gotta find that person
Fair enough.
It's an opinion of course, but I do believe a little bit differently. As we grow and explore, we may desire different things and different people.
However, I think it is rare to find somebody with who you truly connect to. Some people you meet come with effortless good conversations, where others you can probe and attempt anything with but the conversation will never really ever be able to take off.
I think there are several people with whom you can have really good chemistry with. However, it gets hard to give up memories and time spent together which makes us cling to the idea of "the one". Even outside of romantic relationships that exists. I've worked with people for years and never have been able to have a super good conversation with them (and yes, I do have some social skills), and I've also met people and bonded with them for 30 minutes and had conversations that were a 100 times more interesting. I think everyone has experienced that.
This post was edited by GLYC123 on Mar 2 2017 08:00pm