I currently play on Gilgamesh. A lot of new player friendly FCs(Guilds), and folks seems fairly helpful (the Mentor system helps). Though it can be difficult to get a new character created due to the high pop. Typically character creation opens up late at night/ early morning; they restrict it when the server is near it's limit. Gilgamesh does often have a queue, but you wait about 20 seconds most of the time. Never seen a queue last longer than 5 minutes. However, that high pop ensures a healthy auction house, and a lot of people to play with :).
Hope you enjoy your time on it, FFXIV is quite good. Very reminiscent to vanilla and early WoW expansions IMO.
This post was edited by KelgraLoc on Feb 25 2017 08:11pm