this is good advice, it's been what my supervisor at my internship has been preaching to me a lot

I am sorry to hear this.
A year and a half ago I lost my best friend to a car accident as well so I can relate to your loss.
Take the best of what you learned and live it out.
When you need to feel them feels, just find a quiet place and do it.
Keep your head up bud

Charles Manson died in Hospital tonight

My condolences.....

Always really difficult when someone passes suddenly.

Keep those happy memories with you.

This post was edited by Killingyouall on Nov 20 2017 12:34am

Realistically in a business atmosphere the only people you need to worry about not liking you are those who you can use to advance your position.

If you want to be successful you need to develop a thick skin, act in your own best interest, and not be afraid whose toes you step on to advance to a higher standing.

If you want to be assertive work on tactics to enhance your image. The old adage fake it till you make it can work. If you are not feeling confident, act confident, and if it is believable you will be surprised how much easier it becomes to gain respect and have others become more likely to listen to your ideas.

When you stop seeing your colleagues as friends and view them as competition you can gain an edge. That does not mean you should be an asshole, just remember your colleagues have similar ambitions as you and there is only so many promotions that will be handed out.

If you can put together the right mix of being confident, friendly, assertive and versatile the confidence will come with it. Just stay focused on what it is you want.


If you are in more of a coaching role, just be constant like Max said. Point out good work, but don't be afraid to criticize either.

This post was edited by Killingyouall on Nov 20 2017 12:49am

Lol i swear idk if scammers are just straight up dumb or 14yr olds.

Basically im playin this old school game RO with my friends casually and we rarely got time to farm and shit decently to enjoy the end game bosses we wanna do casually. So this dude gives me a great offer, basically $20 for everything he got cuz he's quitting and playing on another server. So it would get all of us pretty much decently geared to start our own thing than farming weeks/months to actually play the near end game content we want.
Anyway, he says he got trust issues and want me to send first to the other server's account he made (guessing he has no paypal ) i knew it was 99.9% scam, but it's only $20 and worth the risk to me, and also knew that it's easy to get a refund from the other server owner or dispute if necessary from paypal.
So ofc the dude scams me as soon as i put in $20 worth into the account, then types "lol ez" and i replied with... lol ok?
I contact the other server owner, and reminded me of their policy stating that all accounts related will get banned, items removed, etc. which had no loss for me since i dont even play that server, and i told him i already know and give me my refund. So he refunded me the $20. I Assume he banned the fake account the scammer created for me to put my $20 into + all his real accounts related through his IP address etc.
Dude comes back online to the server my friends and i are playin at, basically coming up with dumb excuses like his bro or his friend did it, and apologizing he didnt mean to scam. I just ignore him, and he somehow finds us in the area we chill at in game, and drops all his shit that he was suppose to give us. Then basically starts rage typing, eventually admitting he did it, then being sorry again, how much gears& shit he lost on the other server. and basically asking me to solve his problem with the other server owner. I'm still ignoring him and dont plan on replying either. Though my friends are still tryin to pressure me to type lol ez back to him, but meh it's pointless and sad at this point. I just dont understand the logic behind this "scam" or if it even worked previously to other ppl...

This post was edited by Secksii on Nov 20 2017 02:51am

fire.


god will must be so happy rn

lol

Thanks for the support boys, felt good to discuss it here. Life's short gotta live every day to the fullest.