Alright guys I've been considering methods of trading and I've figured one out! Kind of over the top but I'm willing to help everyone in the entire sub section out in order to get the ball rolling on this.
I've rented my own private server which I can lock and unlock as I please. the people trading go in and I lock the server to only you two, or maybe just use 3 if I'm already doing something on the server. you guys could meet up without the worry of getting pked. Dealing with zombies is on you......
LMK!