Joined: Sep 20 2006
Ok I'll try to say this in the nicest way possible because as you stated you are disabled but you seem to be pretty "all there". You are setting your expectations way too high buddy. A couple things point this out...
1) In your photo you took a picture calling yourself bad ass and you say you are a body builder. You are not actually a body builder. You just work out and are in the beginning stages, so therefore you are definitely not bad ass. Be confident in yourself but don't overdo it and make yourself look dumb.
2) You say you don't have a problem meeting people, but the girls just want to be friends. That's because you are only talking to girls out of your league and they don't want anything further with you than a friendship. They see you are a nice guy, so who wouldn't want to be friends with a nice guy. Just accept it & learn from it.
3) The disability portion. I give you every bit of sympathy possible for your situation with the brain damage etc, but don't LET that put a barrier on your life. There are millions of people that are handicap & disabled that still find ways to work and make money. Put yourself in a woman’s eyes man. Would you want to live the rest of your life on a $900 monthly income from the government? No. I know you say you are comfortable with that amount but no woman with the slightest bit of class necessities will be. You seem really smart so I know you are just choosing to sit home. Like you said, you learn a little slower but once you got it, you got it. Change this attitude! People like to go out and have fun. Most girls aren't all about money, but that doesn't mean they want to be strapped to spending $20 a month for the rest of their lives. People like to go on vacations, go out to dinner once a week, etc.
I'm not trying to be a dick and bash your parade man. You are heading in the right direction by asking for opinions in the first place. Can you find a girl that is completely OK with you and the lifestyle you want to live right now? Yes, absolutely... but not at the standards you’re looking for. To get the girl that you *desire*, you will have to change yourself.