im a body builderanyway its not gay if you show off your body people dont have to look at it but if they chose to look at it then thats their issue men and women both look at their own bodies and i was looking for women to anwser me to see if they can prove me wrong about them only going for men with alot of money and ive got my answer since only men posted i see that women didnt want to tell the true or just didnt want to answer

You're a body builder? Okay.

im working on it i just do use roids im 100 % natural ill take other pic just for you to look at im another 3-4 months i got a lightweight body so i wont so it as much but i wont suffer from looking fat so i quess im blessed

There must be places in your town where there would be a higher chance of single women there. Try to have a chat, don't be shy, show confidence, but not cockiness.

Ok I'll try to say this in the nicest way possible because as you stated you are disabled but you seem to be pretty "all there". You are setting your expectations way too high buddy. A couple things point this out...

1) In your photo you took a picture calling yourself bad ass and you say you are a body builder. You are not actually a body builder. You just work out and are in the beginning stages, so therefore you are definitely not bad ass. Be confident in yourself but don't overdo it and make yourself look dumb.

2) You say you don't have a problem meeting people, but the girls just want to be friends. That's because you are only talking to girls out of your league and they don't want anything further with you than a friendship. They see you are a nice guy, so who wouldn't want to be friends with a nice guy. Just accept it & learn from it.

3) The disability portion. I give you every bit of sympathy possible for your situation with the brain damage etc, but don't LET that put a barrier on your life. There are millions of people that are handicap & disabled that still find ways to work and make money. Put yourself in a woman’s eyes man. Would you want to live the rest of your life on a $900 monthly income from the government? No. I know you say you are comfortable with that amount but no woman with the slightest bit of class necessities will be. You seem really smart so I know you are just choosing to sit home. Like you said, you learn a little slower but once you got it, you got it. Change this attitude! People like to go out and have fun. Most girls aren't all about money, but that doesn't mean they want to be strapped to spending $20 a month for the rest of their lives. People like to go on vacations, go out to dinner once a week, etc.

I'm not trying to be a dick and bash your parade man. You are heading in the right direction by asking for opinions in the first place. Can you find a girl that is completely OK with you and the lifestyle you want to live right now? Yes, absolutely... but not at the standards you’re looking for. To get the girl that you *desire*, you will have to change yourself.

Here's what you should know about what women want:

They don't want to settle for someone, they want someone who deserves them.
If it doesn't work out, don't force it to.
They want a man, not a boy.
They want someone with ambitions, goals, and headed towards a career if not already there.
They don't want to be the man in a relationship.
They don't like guys who have low self-esteem, get jealous easily, and not confident in themselves.
They like when guys take charge and take initiative.
It's not always about money.
You have to be an excellent listener and great with conversations.
They don't boring guys who have nothing to talk about.
If you have nothing to talk about, your life is most likely boring or you two just don't connect well.

etc

OP,

Just so we understand what we're dealing with:

How old are you?
What country do you live in?
What do you look like?

I would seriously start by getting your shit in order, it's not always about how much money you bring in, but when you're mid to late 20s or older with no car, no Job no career ambitions scraping by on your 900 dollars a month disability pay... You're not exactly looking like a prime choice for a girl wanting to enter a relationship. You Havnt really specified on your exact condition but what I can gather from your posts you're pretty much all there, you're physically in shape I don't see why you couldn't get a labouring job like construction... Where you're basically paid from the neck down anyways.

ya ive been trying to get a heavy labouring job but all the ones i find they either dont hire me or they want student only and im not a student anymore its the problem with beening in a small town