How much time should i give it before i ask her out?
we are taking things slow and it's been about a month.
Can i wait too long?

whenever you feel ready or comfortable enough, and don't forget it has to be mutual.
if you know that she's down to be in a relationship, go for it. if you wait too long and wait for her to do the move, she'll question your confidence and it won't work.

You should definitely ask her out soon. If you wait much longer she's gonna think you just want to be friends. If she seems interested in you then make your move already.

i agree.

just get it over and done with, because you might like the results and its better to do it sooner rather later because you might end up stressing over keeping to mean to ask her out possibly. and the worse that could happen is she says no, it's better do it rather waiting and spending your life wondering "what if" if you don't

Don't think so much... just ask her..

Although i don't want to wonder for the rest of my life "what if".
Should i wait until we hangout a little more? like i don't need an exact day but roughly when.
if we are taking it slow i mean shouldn't i wait longer?
So you think if i don't make the move she's gonna think i friend zoned her and move on? i really like her i just like her so much i'm nervous to make the move i guess cause i dont want it to be too soon and i really want things to work out

I'm not sure what you mean by taking it slow. That concept doesn't really exist with dating, only with sex. If you wait to ask her out she's going to think you want to just be friends or that you lack confidence. As long as you've spent some time with her (doesn't have to be much), then ask her out. You can hang out all you want on a date.

Get it while the getting's good. Don't wait until she loses interest.

You mean like asking her to be exclusive?

This post was edited by Urbain on Jul 17 2012 07:21pm

lol slow to me is hard making out within the first week, 1 month to ask her out is beyond slow... just grow a pair and do it. stop asking questions and just go up to her.... how would being my amazing girlfriend be?

I feel like we need to hangout a little more? We've already had sex but have only hungout twice now.