Quote (Urbain @ Jun 21 2012 05:14pm)
Just the fact that you asked why denotes that you absolutely do not have the right mind set right now
yup, I don't know whether or not I should continue trying. I haven't picked up d3 yet because I don't want to get fat and lazy but I might soon
Quote (Lot2 @ Jun 21 2012 05:31pm)
I usually find what you say true, but this is bullshit.
Taking a step forward, and asking for help is the first step in the right direction.
Look up "Simple Pickup" at YouTube. Great motivation and very helpful.
You'll have to realize that going from zero to hero is a big step, but keep your head high.
The fact that you live with your parents doesn't matter the slightest - But if i were you, i'd get my own place soon.
Looks are not a determining factor, the fact that you think it is is the reason you have yet to get laid, not the looks itself.
Humor and personality is just a matter of being yourself, which you only are when you are secure of yourself and your surroundings. It's not like some people "dont have personalities". You are just afraid of showing it, yet again comming back to your lack of self-confidence.
If you have any questions, feel free to PM me.
I've been watching their videos, I talk to random girls I meet in the mall, groceries, etc. but haven't been able to get any numbers. I really want to move out but my parents won't let me.. I have to commute ~1 hour to work and I want to get an apt closer to work but my parents said they'll just buy a new house near my work and we'll all move there together... (I'm an only child and they're VERY protective). They won't let me go anywhere 1 on 1 with a girl... this one time I went with a girl friend to have lunch and my parents were stalking me the entire time -_-''
I dunno about looks, I'm 5'6" 150lbs, average build and I've been told I look like ET. I wish I was taller and caucasian.
Quote (Sneaky- @ Jun 21 2012 05:37pm)
Asking women out comes with a lot of rejection (trust me its a two way street) but a lot of time there isnt an exact reason. Maybe the chemistry isnt there or they are seeing someone or who knows. The reason will vary. Usually they wont be bitches about it so I say keep asking! And if you dont ask, flirt make jokes, make yourself available. Let others know your looking and maybe the woman will ask you.
You may be tired of waiting because 28 is a little later to start the game, but don't rush the first time encounter. Just increases chances that it will be terrible. Something you will never forget
Getting rejected over and over gets pretty frustrating
Quote (TrouNce @ Jun 21 2012 07:04pm)
@the bold, The first thing I'd like to say is you need to put your "Friends" In their places, if they support you (Like friends should) then they should accept you, give you the space and/or assistance you need... Being made fun of is not a valid reason to look for sex, or a girlfriend. A lot of these things happen naturally if you're patient and accept what comes, if you feel like it's a necessity because of outside pressure it's only going to make things more difficult.
#2 you're going to get rejected, it's inevitable, learn to live with it. I don't mean "Always expect it" I mean project confidence when you ask a girl out, and have no fear of rejection because you understand it's part of the process.
#3 If you're concerned about your looks and personality it actually becomes obvious to females, insecurities aren't a bad thing but being consumed by them can stifle your personality. Buy new clothes, get some advice on cologne, talk with confidence, and absolutely be yourself.
#4 Get better friends.
I'm pretty much a hermit since my parents won't let me go anywhere (my mom always calls to check up where I am) so it's hard to make new friends but I'll try. Usually my day goes like: wake up, go to work, come home, play video games/music/watch tv, sleep