Quote (Autocrat @ Jun 19 2012 09:42am)
I work full time, I train after work on Monday and Wednesday, and also on Saturday and Sunday mornings. I recently moved to this town so the only people I really know are my co-workers (all of them are about a decade older than me) and the people I practice Brazilian Jiu Jitsu with (who tell me they'll "give me a shout" the next time they go out, but never do).
It's a small town with a handful of bars that are rarely ever busy and, even if they are, it's mostly Natives getting hammered and starting fights with people (this includes their women).
There are plenty of pretty girls around (I know because I've seen them) but I've never had an opportunity to meet any of them and I'm not the audacious type so I'm not just going to walk up to a complete stranger and introduce myself. Not to mention that, even if I did, I'm pretty picky and looks can be deceiving.
Anyways, I'm not too sure what I'm hoping to accomplish by posting this since there's really no advice anyone can give me that will change my situation aside from "spend every moment you're not busy chasing girls". I guess I'll just have to keep moseying along and see what happens.
I don't understand. I know what you said after the red text as well, but, you really have nothing to lose. Worst case scenario: you get turned down and maybe look a little silly. Best case scenario: you meet someone and possibly go on a date together. It comes down to how bad you want it, just like your BJJ, how bad do you want to succeed?