If you have doubts, fuck her. I mean move on and you'll find another girl.
I would be able to date any sluts either.
You're 15 so you still have ALOT of time broseph.


This post was edited by HawkEye on Jun 11 2012 07:04pm

Not really the kind of answer I'm looking for, I'm not exactly looking for a slut but for a girlfriend. I'm not worth her time, either way...

Problem not over. Had a talk with two of my friends... They plead me to absolutely not tell her because they say she's mean and all... and i really believe them but i love her...

dammit

Well it looks to me that you have no chance with her. Oh well.

So pretty much you just admitted your a pussy, and you're not going to man up because she's 'mean' and all.

You believe your friends, yet you won't make decisions for yourself? I dated my ex who my friends pleaded not to go out with, cause every guy got their heart broken by her. All rumors and lies, cause a couple of my friends tried to hit it, but she wouldn't let them. One true friend told me the truth, and eventually we got into a relationship where it wasn't progressing, and broke it off on good terms.

You need to decide what you want.

You want her? Then go for it. Stop posting on this forum, and do something about it...

Nothing ventured is nothing gained.

This post was edited by pAiLiXziX on Jun 12 2012 05:45am

Woah made some typos loool
I WOULDNT BE ABLE TO DATE A SLUT*******

And the Fuck her was ment to say like screw her or w.o ... Not having sex with her lol

I had a crush on a really nice girl in my chemistry class for about a year

I got badly friendzoned and learned alot (Hurtful shit about her being one hell of a slut. I was kind of being destroyed from withing, but after 6 more months of talking less to her I got totally over it and even had my first gf for 3 months)
She doesn't even care if I touch her pussy (with clothes) or her tits in class while the teacher isnt watching, and we tend to cuddle a lot now. I can pretty much do whatever the fuck I want, just not bang her. ( I am still working at it. Or... again working at it. )

However since I don't wanna get dragged away too far from your problem: yes it really bothered me finding out this dark side about her. I literally cried, daydreaming about her while seeing a porn, since it was some gross stuff about fucking weird guys she told me. (yeah this sounds super awkward, I know)

And I got torn apart, and even now she loves to play with my heart. But the one time I told her I couldn't be friends with her anymore because she is a weird freak, I just couldn't stop myself from becoming friends with her again. I can't live with her but neither can I do so without her. I am just crazy about her.
But I try to distract myself by talking to more and more other females. It works so far.


I actually do believe anyone has got a somewhat dark side which might bug you, but you should really learn how to deal with it. Whatever makes you happy man, do it. You are the man, don't be a pussy like me and just stand strong.

try this : think of something that you have hidden from people you dont want anyone to know. u gonna tell her? probably not. you liked her as a person before you knew it, why should knowing stuffa bout her past change it? i say u are overthinking it bro

Want to know your problem?

Your problem right now is that your "friends" are telling you things that may have happened with her in the past.
People (especially girls) change a lot overtime. And one of the best things you can learn in life is that details about a certain person change
as it gets passed on through people. Just like the game telephone. I am not saying that what your "friends" are telling you isn't true about
this girl. I'm just trying to tell you that just because someone walks up to you and says that girl used to go fuck every night doesn't mean that's true.

Another thing is you need to disregard other people's comments about her and look at her from your own perspective. Not through another persons eyes.

I used to be in the exact same situation as you. I met this wonderful girl my sophomore year is HS. Talked to her, hung out a couple times. All my friends told me about
all the stuff she used to do. I thought about not asking her out at all or even telling her how I felt. I said screw what my friends said about her and asked her out.
We have been dating for almost 2 years now and NONE of what my friends told me was true nor did any of that happen.

So forget what you have heard about her, look at her through your eyes and from what you already know that you have personally experienced with her.

And get a more positive attitude bud. Saying that your not worth her time? Your basically telling yourself that you don't have a chance.

Good luck

dude it depends on how you spill the beans to her.
If you have heard stuff well fine. Give her something to say to it.

Start be saying well i think you are....
Then I heard ...
no Im confused....
could you please tell me the truth about it... and dont get mad. I really like you and I just want to know.


something along those line should be fine. If shes a bith shell act bitchy if not then everything will be fine.
And dude if shes mean then youll find out.
What can a girl possibly do?