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HawkEye
#11 May 10 2012 07:23pm
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Friend zone is a rediculous concept.
ALOT of couple actually starts with friendship. And as you learn to know the other person, the feeling changes. Thats the way I see it.
I've only been with one girl but it's how we started. Friends. We were together for four years and it was very cool. Now we both went on different paths.
AdamUK
#12 May 11 2012 11:19am
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Quote (HoldOn @ May 10 2012 12:15am)
I do not like the idea of ''friendzone'

Seems like another word invented for those people that can only get friends and that justify it with a concept that has pretty much no credibility


In some causes it's actually freindzoned, though.

I've know one of my best freinds for like 4 years and we were going to fuck at one stage after I split up with my ex but then we decided it might make things awkward. We somtimes flirt and openly talk about if or not fucking would make our freindship awkward. I personally don't think it would but she does but then says that the more we talk about it the more she wants to fuck me? WELCOME TO LE FREINDZONE.
Falcon_A
#13 May 12 2012 12:04pm
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Quote (AdamUK @ May 11 2012 12:19pm)
In some causes it's actually freindzoned, though.

I've know one of my best freinds for like 4 years and we were going to fuck at one stage after I split up with my ex but then we decided it might make things awkward. We somtimes flirt and openly talk about if or not fucking would make our freindship awkward. I personally don't think it would but she does but then says that the more we talk about it the more she wants to fuck me? WELCOME TO LE FREINDZONE.


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Lot2
#14 May 12 2012 05:12pm
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Quote (Act1 @ May 9 2012 11:47pm)
First off, you can't change the way a person feels about you.
Next, the other person usually decides within the first few minutes of meeting you whether you are in the "friend category" or "potential date category."

So first impressions are the most important.


Not at all

Now, i could spend 1500 words explaining how to be flirtatous, but i would recommend you look up Simple Pickup on youtube.

1. Be sexual

Don't be afraid to show your sexuality.

2. Use KINO-escalation

If you do not know what it is, look it up.

Nile
#15 May 14 2012 10:59am
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Quote (Vereor @ May 10 2012 01:15pm)
make it known from day one your intentions.


This basically. Personally, I believe the friend zone isn't as real as some people make it out to be. You have to make sure she knows what you want from it. I was stuck in the "friend zone" with a girl for almost 5 years. We were really good friends and we dated other people during that time but I always had a bit of a crush on her and of course I thought she was attractive or else I wouldn't have been friends with her. Finally I actually decided that I really did like her so I told her and turns out she had the same feelings for me the whole time. Most of the time, people do not be friends with the opposite sex unless they find them atleast somewhat attractive.
RyanisGreat
#16 May 14 2012 02:26pm
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If you don't have "game" and you rely on being the nice guy to try to woo a girl then it's a very thin line you gotta walk between being friendly and being a friend.
Most people don't know all too well how to tread that line but basically you can be nice and friendly but at the same time you gotta make it somewhat clear that you're interested in her and not being a friend.
Ezxtz
#17 May 14 2012 05:24pm
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I handle this topic and others in my "Never buy a girl anything" topic, you should read.
Basically don't do nice things for them without getting something back...what are you getting out of the relationship by giving them free rides/gifts/your time? Tell her you want her as a girlfriend and if she says no, stonewall her and don't respond to texts/phone calls(or if you do respond with only 1 line of text)
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