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Hermione
#1 Mar 21 2012 07:36pm
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i usually just stay home on the comp all day, any ideas on what i should do?

something easy for a person that has somewhat social anxiety?

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0nebl00b
#2 Mar 21 2012 08:13pm
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Hey bud, just go out to a public place. It's true when they say the only way to conquer your fears is to face them.
I used to do the same shit, just come home and play games. Now I don't even touch my computer until before bed when I check emails and what not.
Start off small, get comfortable with people, just being around them. Have a buddy with you or something. Once you get used to people, try talking to them - asking for the time, or directions to a specific place or what not.
From there you can just go on and spit some fire. Of course, it'll be slow but you'll get there.

Btw what do you mean by long break?

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Hermione
#3 Mar 21 2012 08:20pm
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Quote (0nebl00b @ Mar 21 2012 10:13pm)
Hey bud, just go out to a public place. It's true when they say the only way to conquer your fears is to face them.
I used to do the same shit, just come home and play games. Now I don't even touch my computer until before bed when I check emails and what not.
Start off small, get comfortable with people, just being around them. Have a buddy with you or something. Once you get used to people, try talking to them - asking for the time, or directions to a specific place or what not.
From there you can just go on and spit some fire. Of course, it'll be slow but you'll get there.

Btw what do you mean by long break?


some problems with my girl(s). which i know isnt good
0nebl00b
#4 Mar 21 2012 08:22pm
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Quote (Hermione @ Mar 21 2012 10:20pm)
some problems with my girl(s). which i know isnt good


Ahh, regardless, go meet new people ;)
Hermione
#5 Mar 21 2012 08:23pm
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Quote (0nebl00b @ Mar 21 2012 10:22pm)
Ahh, regardless, go meet new people ;)


ill try, whats a good settings, what if i dont have friends like that =/
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Quote (Hermione @ Mar 21 2012 10:23pm)
ill try, whats a good settings, what if i dont have friends like that =/


You don't need friends like that. Fuckin go alone, sit down somewhere at like an outside patio with a coffee or somethin and just talk to a random girl who walk's by.
University Campuses are GREAT. You can make friends in an instant. Like I met 6 new people today just from playing soccer. Now I got these people who will call me every time they play soccer. Playing soccer and school now take up like 80% of my day.
Other 20% is sleep + women + hmwk etc.
Hermione
#7 Mar 21 2012 08:44pm
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Quote (0nebl00b @ Mar 21 2012 10:35pm)
You don't need friends like that. Fuckin go alone, sit down somewhere at like an outside patio with a coffee or somethin and just talk to a random girl who walk's by.
University Campuses are GREAT. You can make friends in an instant. Like I met 6 new people today just from playing soccer. Now I got these people who will call me every time they play soccer. Playing soccer and school now take up like 80% of my day.
Other 20% is sleep + women + hmwk etc.


i dont have anything interesting about me etc, i dont do anything special, just some asian nerd
0nebl00b
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Quote (Hermione @ Mar 21 2012 10:44pm)
i dont have anything interesting about me etc, i dont do anything special, just some asian nerd


It's always hard to see what you do best, but you gotta keep looking bro. Don't classify yourself. You're a fucking human not an asian nerd. Go make yourself interesting.
If you go in with the attitude of being just "an asian nerd" then you're obv gonna be boring. You don't need to tell people what goes on behind the scenes. You could tell them you're a fucking astronaut, for all they know you won't be lying.
Hermione
#9 Mar 21 2012 08:52pm
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Quote (0nebl00b @ Mar 21 2012 10:50pm)
It's always hard to see what you do best, but you gotta keep looking bro. Don't classify yourself. You're a fucking human not an asian nerd. Go make yourself interesting.
If you go in with the attitude of being just "an asian nerd" then you're obv gonna be boring. You don't need to tell people what goes on behind the scenes. You could tell them you're a fucking astronaut, for all they know you won't be lying.


thats true, i should have more confidence, its not like im ugly or anything at least i wont scare people away
0nebl00b
#10 Mar 21 2012 08:54pm
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Quote (Hermione @ Mar 21 2012 10:52pm)
thats true, i should have more confidence, its not like im ugly or anything at least i wont scare people away


Good, now get your ass out there and take my advice. Even ugly people with confidence have friends and girlfriends.
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