Quote (x_h @ Apr 16 2024 07:25pm)
It's perfectly fine to talk about these things on a forum. It bothers me that you would be rude enough to come here and tell her she's wrong for asking a simple question.
I advocate for professional modalities like talk, group, and psychotherapy, but I also don't see the issue with asking people on a form questions like these. People who have had experience with these things can often provide valuable insights.
It was true if people would talk when they actually know what they're talking about, but 90% of times people talk just because they can.
And I say that because my wife is a professional in psychiatry and psychoterapy and what she often tells me is that many people get worse just because they get advices by not competent people.
Assuming that since you see that as a "simple question", then she sees/feels it the same way, it's the first signal that you shouldn't talk at all.