Quote (OviMf @ Jul 30 2023 06:02am)
My girlfriend and I are currently in the process of building a house.
We are together since 11 years and we bought a property and house which is now being built.
Thigns changed the last years, I have a fulltime job and she too which is totally fine but she didn't finish her university and is only getting paid 80% of what a real teacher would get because she didn't make the finals.
Now she is planning wedding, has no complete degree but a job which is fine, and we are building a house.
I told her we should finish the house first, use the money we have left over for the wedding if money is even left over and honestly she should focus on her career and house instead of this stupid wedding.
She cried lol.
What now? I think building house, her career not being 100% done, the wedding is just way too much. And honestly, I'd rather go on a vacation to South East Asia than burn 10k € on a wedding day.
I don't see why she can't prioritise important things first (Career and House) and then wedding perhaps vacation.
But she really wants this wedding. I don't understand.
i mean youre doing things kind of backwards. whos name is this house in? how much contribution? 11 years and no ring? are yall like mid 20s and got together in school? idk but if youve made it work, good on you but it sounds like shes the type who wants a big flashy wedding and youre the type whod be fine getting a court house service done, odd to me you dont know that yet.