Last night i actually died in a dream, my cancer won and i was told i had hours to live, it was the most surreal moment of my life, i felt the pain in the dream, i felt at peace, then everything just faded to black, then the black drained out to pure whiteness and i woke up, i actually felt regret that i was alive at that point and then shook myself out of it.
It might be time to see a professional, but in my experience it is hard to find some one that can deal with autistic people on an emotional level.