You are not going to find any common ground concerning all the stuff you mention here.
Keep it as it is. We have a set of pretty fair rules over here.
If you think about it, all your issues trace back to c/t usage. If you really need to change anything, I'd suggest looking deeper into c/t 'technique'.
Otherwise leave it as it is. Some people will be upset no matter what decision you are going to make.
It's really not that serious guys
